Sometimes all it takes to change your outlook on your life is a little self-pampering.  Whether that's a manicure, a massage, a vacation, however it is that you feel most pampered, that one activity for yourself could have a wonderful impact on how you see yourself. 

When you make your to-do lists, it's really easy to write down everything you have to do, or the things that other people need you to do.  How often do you put "pampering myself" on that list?

Try penciling in a little time for yourself on that list.  You might just find a bit more motivation for the other items, and approach them more happily, or even discover they're not all necessary!  Making space in your life for your own needs is important.